Monday, December 22, 2008

WHO AM I?

I'm very sure this question will cross everyone's mind ...

WHO AM I?

This question pop into our minds not because we don't know who we are or we've grown totally senile that we've forgotten our names...

Perhaps the real reason is we don't know;

i. how's our character like?
ii. what's people's impression of us when they first see us?
iii. why do we change so much from year to year when we're just a year older?
iv. what do i really like? OR am i just following the trend, trying to stay on the beaten track?
v. why are we so fickle minded when we're asked to make a decision? OR is it because we don't know what we want?
vi. why do we disobey order when we know that it should be obeyed?

There are many other questions that question us about ourselves...

DO WE HAVE DOUBLE PERSONALITY?
DO WE KNOW OURSELVES ?
DO WE KNOW WHAT WE ACTUALLY WANT?

We tend to follow the footsteps of our parents, siblings, friends, idols...

But we follow just to show that;
i. we are not backdated...
ii. we are not outdated...
iii. we are matured...
iv. we possess the same ability as the person we hero-worshipped...
v. we want to be as capable as the people we idolised...
vi. we want to have a common topic to talk about when we group together with our friends

WHY ?
ARE WE COPYCATS?

Many people are not pursuing their own dreams, instead they are pursuing the dreams of their parents...
Many chose their career path, not based on their interest and capability, instead they chose it because of the market demand or the high pay offered..
Many ended up quitting their jobs or feeling stressed up as they don't fully enjoy or do their jobs willingly...

So we are the ones who determine our future, right?
Why do we follow others?

Besides our future and ambition, we mimic our more popular friends or seniors just to get attention...

Why don't we have our own style and character?
Why do we have to mimic others?

We follow other's apparel and outlook...
We wear dresses following the latest trend although it doesn't really suit us at all...
We don't mind wearing clothings that make us feel uncomfortable all because we want to look as trendy as our pals...

Many of you out there might be shaking your heads or getting really fed up with this denial...

BUT think again!!!

We might not know ourselves that well...

However, we should give this issue a serious thought. We should give ourselves a real and definite personality that suits us as this will make us more likeable and appealing...

WHY BE OTHERS WHEN WE ARE OURSELVES?
WHY MIMIC OTHERS WHEN WE ARE BORN AS DIFFERENT INDIVIDUALS?

GIVE IT A THOUGHT!!!





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